- Tuck Love Notes in their lunchbox, dresser drawers and unexpected places.
- Tell them why you love them
- Worship together
- Be affectionate
- Plan a purity weekend with your tween/teen
- Ask them questions
- Ask then to grade you as a parent
- Break your own rules (eating in bed, playing in the mud, etc).
- Give them a Bible you’ve read and written notes in (next to meaningful Scripture) especially for them
- Go on special dates with your child(ren)
- Go on a family missions trip together
- Memorize scripture together
- Be intentional with holidays-bring Christ in
- Engage every day: connect with them on a deeper level
- Help them live counter-cultural
- Serve with your children
- Listen: stop what you’re doing and really listen
- Don’t always rush to fix their problems
- Be consistent (A doesn’t happen until B-parenting book)
- Have regular family nights
- Make activities matter (Don’t just fill time. Ask: why are we doing this? How does it benefit?)
- Spend time doing something they love -music, running, games, drawing, etc
- Write a Family Missions Statement together
- Create Family Rules for your home
- Look for teachable moments
- Read to them (100 books to read to them)
- Limit media (TV/video games) to a certain amount of time a day/week
- Love your spouse in front of them
- Pick your battles
- Teach them to be strong
- Create family traditions (10 new ones to start today)
- Teach them to pray
- Show them what true success looks like
- Ask your kids for forgiveness when you fail
- Stand up for them
- Don’t over-schedule your kids
- Give them down time
- Pray for your kids- Let them overhear you doing so
- Keep the TV out of their bedroom
- Say yes as often as you can
- Give them the opportunity to change a life
- Use Conversation Starters at dinner
- Create with them
- Give them chores (age appropriate list)
- Challenge them to read their Bible and reward them for doing so
- Catch them being good
- Reward kindness
- Have fun with them!
- Write in a family gratitude journal
- Conduct regular family meetings
- If you don’t accomplish any of these in a day, don’t be discouraged! Above all they need you to be there.
Reposted from Raising Godly Children
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